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Many women mistakenly think that getting married and is the ultimate goal of the relationship between a man and a woman. However, it’s not a secret that the most interesting thing begins next: relations in marriage need not just be preserved, but it is also desirable to strengthen them. It’s here that it becomes clear that even after the wedding, you should not relax especially.

Introduction

Many women mistakenly think that getting married and is the ultimate goal of the relationship between a man and a woman. However, it’s not a secret that the most interesting thing begins next: relations in marriage need not just be preserved, but it is also desirable to strengthen them. It’s here that it becomes clear that even after the wedding, you should not relax especially.

A woman in a marriage is always on the alert. Somehow it happened that it is she who is more vulnerable side, connected with life, children, and therefore less relaxed in realizing her desires. But for men, on the contrary, there are fewer constraining factors, and accordingly there are more opportunities to look for options. Given the natural timidity of women, the bulk of ladies are jealous of their chosen ones, even «to the telegraph pole.»

And if we still take into account the beautiful natural female fantasy, then the man in general on a level ground can become a mean traitor with all the female arguments «for». The fact that a woman can start thinking about treason can be that the husband suddenly became less ardent in bed. However, do not immediately «break the spears.» A man is also a person, and their lives are formed in a combination of circumstances. They, as a rule, experience them inside, not hurrying to devote all at once to all details. Troubles at work, a quarrel with a best friend, the vagaries of elderly parents: any of these or some other standard life factors can provoke the fact that a man becomes in bed less active.

He simply during this period in his head solves some of his own complex tasks, digests information, analyzes the situation for decision-making. The most important thing in this situation is not to exert pressure on a man, but try to figure out what really bothers him. It’s important to put yourself in his place and look at what’s going on with his eyes. Maybe then it will become clearer that it is just how to knock him out of balance.

Pressing on the man in power «quickly sat down and told what’s in your head» is absolutely pointless. Men are inherently secretive, and this means to find out the true reasons for their behavior you need to try. It is possible, in some kind of benevolent form, to offer him a conversation on the topic of the situation that worries you. It can look like «dear, help me, please understand / understand». You will be surprised how much the female and male perception of the same situation may differ. Where a woman has problems on a cosmic scale, the man does not exist at all. And vice versa.

There should be no charges at once, otherwise the man will go to the position of «dumb» defense, and no details from him can not wait for sure. Well, who wants to bother, proving that you are not a bastard if you are not her, and by all the primary signs it is understandable. If suddenly for some reason the man is not ready to discuss what worries you — humble yourself. Complexes and fears in men are much more global than in women. They are much more difficult to recognize that they are not all-powerful, that they too may have health problems.

And if it’s about masculine health, then this topic is not at all for discussion with a woman. Regardless of anything, the most correct female position in this situation is to give all the conditions of your loved one for rest and relaxation. A more measured rhythm and appropriate environment will help him to come to form faster. Confidence that a loved woman next to him and come to help in any, even a negative situation, will give the man strength. If the situation is really serious and you need the help of a specialist, then you can go together to a sexologist. But this crucial step must necessarily be a decision taken by both sides.